A guide to

Etiquette

FIRST CONTACT

First impressions count upon contact with escorts. Escorts are usually selective about their clientele, within in moments they will be able to work out if you are someone they are comfortable to meet.

Many escorts have their own preferred contact method, which works best for them. It is important to respect any instructions as this will be the best way you can reach them. Most escorts will not answer calls from private numbers. “Text message, email or phone call” is polite and straightforward. Simply introduce yourself, give your location as well as your preferred date, time and duration of the booking. Leaving voicemails please give a preferred contact method and suitable time to contact you. Remember that escorts will sometimes be available at short notice, pre booking is usually preferred. Be respectful and courteous as offensive inappropriate language will not impress Escorts and is certainly not acceptable when arranging a booking. Many escorts have their rates fixed do not try to negotiate rates as this offensive and disrespectful.

All escorts have made their information available to you through their advertisement. Read their profile thoroughly before contacting them, so you can keep your questions to subjects that are not already covered on their profile. If you are looking for a particular service or fantasy, always confirm that your escort will provide this service. Do not ask for services that they have clearly stated that they do not provide.

When making a booking, escorts will ask you for personal details to confirm. This information must be taken for security reasons, and is generally not negotiable.

 

PREPARING FOR YOUR ESCORT

Hygiene is extremely important. It is important that your escort enjoys you as much as you enjoy them. Self-maintenance, showering prior to your escort arriving is a must. When an escort is visiting your home, always provide clean linen and a fresh towels. As an escort is a guest in your home, a clean tidy place and bathroom will go along way, and they will appreciate your efforts. Whilst an escort is visiting your home ensure that nobody else will be arriving home while your escort is present.

When offering any kind of beverage to an escort, always present it in a sealed bottle and open it only in front of them. 

If you are visiting an escort at their residence, remember to be discreet as their privacy is as important as yours and must be respected. If you are unsure where you are going, don’t make it obvious. Discretely call and ask them for directions, and make sure that nobody else can hear you.

All escorts are different in their lifestyle and boundaries. Some will share a glass of wine with you, while others will not. Unless you know your escort and what they are comfortable with, alcohol consumption should be very measured.

Being intoxicated has a very negative effect on sexual performance. You are paying for pleasure, not frustration.

 

THE MEETING

Have the amount ready for your escort upon arrival. A common practise is to have the correct amount ready in an envelope, placed in an obvious location. Allow your escort a minute or two, to check that everything is in order.

The beginning of an escort service usually involves a bit of friendly chat, to break the ice and develop a rapport. Escorts are well known for their privacy and discretion. Be respectful of their boundaries, and do not ask personal questions. If your escort volunteers to share some personal information with you, do not take that as an invitation for you to further the conversation. Remember that a little bit of sense of humour goes a long way. This will make you feel relaxed, you will connect with them, and you are allowing time for your escort to connect with you.

 

THE INTIMACY

This is the best part of the escort service, so let them make you feel as if nothing else matters other than being in that moment, they know how.

But never get so carried away with sexual excitement that you overstep their boundaries and please always respect your escort's wishes. There must be a good communication and understanding from the beginning of what services they provide.

There will be times where you just can’t get enough of your escort, and you will want them to stay longer. If your companion has no other engagements, they might be able to stay. It is expected for payment to be made at the beginning of any extended time.

 

FUTURE CONTACT

It is a nice gesture for a client to send a short email or text within a couple of days, thanking the escort for a lovely time. This is generally appreciated, and further builds rapport but it must stay at that. It is important that you do not make frequent contact unless making a booking. If you invite your companion out for dinner or to go out socially, it is a booking and they must get paid. Yes, they do enjoy your company but please do not forget it is a business arrangement. 

 


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